Vol. I · May 2026
put a ring on it
An editorial on the small, circular things we keep
The Lead Essay

What if my girlfriend accidentally finds the ring before I propose?

Marcus texted me at 11:14 on a Tuesday last winter. The message was short: “She found it.” He’d hidden the 2.1-carat oval in a shoebox-not the sock drawer...

By Renee AlexanderAugust 5, 2026
Custom engagement ring
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No. 02

How do I match the ring style to the proposal setting (e.g., beach vs. city)?

I had a client last August-Elena-who was planning a proposal on a sailboat off the Amalfi coast. She was dead set on a delicate 0.8mm pavé band with a...

No. 03

What paperwork do I need for insuring a custom engagement ring?

The short list: an appraisal, a receipt or bill of sale, good photographs, and your policy paperwork. The slightly longer list, which I give every client...

No. 04

What are the current trends in engagement ring designs for this year?

The word “trend” makes me wince, but I understand the question. Clients come in holding saved Instagram folders, and I spend a lot of time untangling what...

No. 05

Is a rose gold engagement ring durable enough for everyday wear?

Rose gold is a perfectly reasonable choice for an everyday engagement ring, and I make more of them now than I did ten years ago. It's durable. It ages...

No. 06

How do I safely travel with an engagement ring before the proposal?

Last October a client named Ben flew from Seattle to Boston with a 2.7 carat oval diamond in his carry-on. He’d wrapped the ring in a sock, stuffed it in a...

No. 07

What do I do if the engagement ring gets stuck on a swollen finger?

Daniel walked into the studio on a humid July afternoon with his left hand held up like a wounded bird. The ring-a 2.8mm comfort-fit 14k white gold band-had...

No. 08

How often should I have a jeweler inspect the prongs?

Lauren came in on a Thursday morning last March, holding her engagement ring a little too carefully. The center diamond, a 0.90 carat round, was still in...

No. 09

Is a half-carat diamond engagement ring considered too small?

No. A half-carat is not too small, and I wish fewer clients felt like they needed to ask. The question itself is a weird artifact of the last fifteen years...

No. 10

How do I compare diamond quality from different online jewelers?

Last month a client named Daniel forwarded me six listings for near-identical 1.5‑carat round diamonds. Every stone was graded F/VS2, every one claimed...

No. 11

How do I know if a diamond is real without a certificate?

I get this question about once a week, and it always starts the same way. Someone walks in holding a ring they found in a drawer or inherited from an aunt....

From the Editor

We started this journal because the most interesting thing about a ring isn’t the ring. It’s the choice to make one in the first place.

Ines Marchetti, Founding Editor

A letter, every other Sunday.

One essay, one object, one quiet recommendation — delivered slowly, the way these things ought to be.